Seriously, here is my $. 02:
1) Honesty. (Followed closesly by wit, beauty, heat, compassion, loyalty, etc. Etc. Etc. ) Lay it all out, hold absolutely nothing straight right straight back. If he is well well well worth having, he will respect you because of it and as you more as a result of it.
2) fretting about inexperience.: ) Which extends back to (1) – if he is well well worth having, he defintely won’t be concerned with deficiencies in “experience. ” And that goes double-triple-quadruple for intimate experience.
3) Phew. That is difficult to explain – the gf whose deep kisses we liked least always left a pocket that is large of between her lips and mine. Not so great looking (don’t feel well) or emotionally satisfying (did not feel intimate. ) But i am quite quite quite certain we have all their particular animal peeves; you’ll likely simply have to explore only a little to see everything you (plural) like. And also this dates back to (1) – if you prefer what he does, make sure he understands. If you do not, do not chalk it to “inexperience, ” grin, and keep it – make sure he understands. Encourage him to share with you just exactly what he likes and does not.
4). (see each of above) This acts you in several methods – it’s going to allow you to deepen and strengthen an invaluable relationship, or it’s going to let you find out incompatibilities early, when you’ve got less time / effort / psychological money committed to the partnership.
Oh, and congratulations. And also have fun! And lordy lordy lordy, i am presuming you know all about birth control and safe sex, but just in case: Planned Parenthood and the Coalition for Positive Sexuality (NSFW) have some good info since you post here. Continue reading “Boiling down the jibber-jabber: available, truthful interaction is vital”