The # 1 Thing All Happily Maried People Have As A Common Factor

The # 1 Thing All Happily Maried People Have As A Common Factor

No, it’s perhaps maybe not communication that is“healthy or “quality time together.”

We read a complete lot about relationships.

Being fully a premier journalist in love, therapy, and relationships on Medium requires plenty of research whenever you’re maybe perhaps not actually a psychologist (or hitched, for example).

Recently, we read a written guide called The Seven Principles to make wedding Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver. Admittedly, we picked this name because my boyfriend and I also intend on engaged and getting married soon, and, well, we’re really hoping to make it work.

The general concept each among these axioms (and each great therapy book I’ve ever read) comes down seriously to this:

All joyfully married people display friend behavior that is best.

Based on Gottman and Silver, “Friendship fuels the flames of relationship since it supplies the protection that is best against feeling adversarial toward your partner.”

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